Reclaiming My Cart: A New Kind of Spending Diary

Reclaiming My Cart: A New Kind of Spending Diary

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Buying better, not perfect, in a world that wants it all to be black and white.

In light of recent events…

And yes, I mean the current state of U.S. politics.

…I’ve been thinking deeply about where my money goes and how I spend it, beyond how it impacts my lifestyle.

It’s an intentional move because.

Because let’s be real, my cart has carried a lot over the years: convenience, survival mode, guilt, and aspirations.

But with this switch, I’m not doing hauls or delivering hot takes.

I’m not interested in shame or perfection, either.

Reclaiming My Cart is about more than buying less or spending “better.”

It’s about tuning in. Asking new questions. Making peace with the messy middle.

I’m not pretending I’ve got it all figured out.

I’m doing this to be present with my money, values, and real life.

What to Expect:

  • Honest reflections on where I’m spending and why
  • Product swaps that match my values and account for my real life
  • Notes on affordability, accessibility, and grace in the gray areas
  • Encouragement to do this your way, not mine

This isn’t a no-spend challenge or a call-out series.

It’s a journey of reclaiming my time, power, and peace—one checkout at a time.

Honestly? I’m a little nervous to document this publicly. Mainly because nuance isn’t always welcomed online, especially these days.

But I still want to do this .

I’m still doing this – to shine a little light and hope in all the chaos and echo chambers.

Come Along For the Ride

Follow along as I buy better, not perfect.

Come along. Not for the aesthetics or a performance, but for the alignment.

Because I’m not here to tell you where to stop or how to spend.

I’m just here to show what it looks like when a woman reclaims her cart—and maybe, herself too.

Tamara Sykes
Caribbean-Born Gal. Always Plottin' My Next Hairstyle. Encouraging women with a creative spirit to color outside the lines and live a life they love.

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